The year 2015 has been one of the
most successful years of my life. The number of things I wished but I didn’t
get is actually very few. I received a lot of love and support from my friends
and family throughout the year which I can’t express in words. I found some
important success and opportunities in my personal and professional life as
well. Most importantly my son ‘Ishaan’ came to the world this year. So of
course the year 2015 remained one of the luckiest years for me!!
I don’t know is it a tradition or
not! Every year most of the people came up with a New Year resolution, but I
never thought of having such list. Because in all those years of losing and
quitting, I never stopped to think about what I might want to gain. I spend a lot
time to subdue my inner voices, a lot of time not trusting on myself. I always
felt immense guilt even doing nothing; always choose the path of least resistance
to avoid conflict. But now I know what the fact is! Actually to please
everyone, nothing is ever sufficient. During the year 2015 I have learned,
realized and experienced a lot of things. Now I know the importance of family
and health, there are lots of things I can do for them and for myself as well.
Start of New Year is the perfect time
to turn a new page in life. So here I came up with a list of things I want to
do in this year. As it is 2016, I have fixed 16 targets for me.
- My first target is to develop my spiritual and religious life. I will try (actually not try, must!) to read five times prayer every day, and read Quran at least once in a week. I want to increase my faith to Allah, because it is the backbone of everything we do and everything we are.
- Read at least 100 books this year, because reading opens up our mind and strengthen us as nothing else can. Books are a uniquely portable magic!
- Giving as much as possible time to my children’s and my family. Because at the end of the day they are the most precious thing I have!
- Loose 10 kg of weight. Not for beauty perspective but as a health concern I should do this.
- Will try to forgive everyone who ever did any harm to me or my family.
- Will always think twice before I speak. Just don’t want to hurt anyone anymore.
- I will watch out my anger. Extreme anger can lead to vengeance.
- Whenever I make a plan, I will try to stick on this.
- Overcoming depression and trusting on myself.
- Another most important thing I want to do is to ‘Stop Judging People’. Rather spending time worrying about others, I will spend more time improving myself.
- Will save some money for future rather spending everything. It is really important because we never know when crisis may come!
- Will try to eat healthy as much as possible.
- Spend less time in social networking sites, rather will try to improve social/personal relationship with relatives and neighbors.
- Getting out of any kind of debt (not only mine, even my husband’s too), because any kind of debt either it is money or something else can be a huge pressure on our back.
- Will try to stop getting panic so easily, rather I will try to be organized so that everything remains under control.
- Last but not the least I will try to spread love and smile everywhere every time!!
That’s All, Happy New Year!!!! Be happy Always (Smile)!
